Stupid phone

today my cipet phone restarted at least 20 times by itself with or without me realizing it cipet!!!!

I want to change phone liao cannot tahan!!! FAKKKKK!!!!! Especially when you are talking to a important client or your love ones then the phone cut by itself then really super potong stim lo...

BUT $$ havent come in how to change? Sit at home eat banana lo... cipet...

However, donations are more than welcome... please contact me tru facebook :)

28 liao.... Welcome the late 20's group....

Yes yes I am turning 1 year older..more wisdom, more white hair, hopefully twice as rich.

Happy 28th Bird-day Hector~

So where's my "somebody"?

So where's my "somebody"?

Gotta be Somebody - Nickelback

This time, I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life, the one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough
So I'll be waiting for the real thing, I'll know it by the feeling
The moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene
Straight off the silver screen
So I'll be holding my own breath, right up 'til the end
Until that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with

'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
'Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
'Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Tonight, out on the street, out in the moonlight
And dammit this feels too right, it's just like déjà vu
Me standing here with you
So I'll be holding my own breath, could this be the end
Is it that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with

'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
'Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
'Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

You can't give up, looking for a diamond in the rough
You never know, when it shows up, make sure you're holding on
'Cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on
'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me, ohhh

Nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
Nobody wants to be the last one there
'Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Drenched....

stressed.......
drenched.........
brain dead.........

pussy hair!!!!

WTF!!!

I dunno what I am writing due to the "sien"ness within...

Silence!!! I kill you!! - Achmed the Dead terrorist

So sue me...

phew~!

Hit 100% dy.. at least can catch a breath to 'cheong' for more sales.... phew!!!!

150% here i come!!!!

Arrrgghhh!!!! Month end closing....!!

Another 10+ days to month end closing... a bit tense because i set a higher target for my ownself. oh well it's my life i make my rules..

After this all i can long for is a 2~3 hrs massage... ah..... and a getaway... and my new phone!!!

Cheerios :)

Tips for Better Life

Taken from someone's post in friendster, makes a lot of sense to me at least feel free to share :)

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did the previous year.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
28. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
29. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
30. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
31. The best is yet to come.
32. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
33. Do the right thing!
34. Call your family often.
35. Your inner most is always happy. So be happy.
36. Each day give something good to others.
37. Don't over do. Keep your limits.

Finally one freaking post!

Yes yes yes I've been sleeping for a long long time... so sue me...

I haven't blogging too much mainly is because i don't what to blog and secondly i just started a new job and all.

Looking back last year it was pretty much of a roller coaster ride and yet I survive it through! After all they are right, "What can't kill you makes you stronger!!" and towards the end of last year, a gift, my new name Hector.

So to start the year I come out with my own resolution and improving my blogging is not one of the priority :p but that doesn't stop me from not blogging.

There you go:

1. Embark on a exciting career and earn $$$
2. Clear up my financial mess
3. Start gaining/look up information to do investment
4. Bali!
5. Change my phone, nokia N96 or better
6. Better in my dancing ;)
7. Welcoming a life partner into my life :)

Simple easy and all rounded :). Let's start the year with a big bang and make sure 2009 the year of OX getting ready for us!

err......i was told to update my blog...

[1]Have you ever been in a perfect relationship?
→ nope, initially always are perfect...

[2]What was the last thing you bought?
→ food

[3]Do you know when your father's birthday is?
→ yes

[4]Where was the last place you went shopping?
→ ..forgot

[5]What was the last movie you watched?
→ madagascar 2

[6]Are you a cuddler?
→ yes

[7]Do people hate you?
→ yes so sue me!!

[8]What are you listening to?
→ Aventura- Obsession

[9]Who was the last person to dance with you?
→ dunno her name...

[10]Did anyone see you kiss the last person you kissed?
→ dunno

[11]Have you ever liked someone older than you?
→ yeah..

[12]Have you ever kissed someone named Jessica?
→ Alba?

[13]When was the last time you were extremely disappointed
→ today, about event lo...

[14]Have you ever had a pet fish?
→ used to

[15]Is there a person of the opposite sex that means a lot to you?
→ who?

[16]Have you ever felt replaced?
→ yeah

[17]What do you do when you have a bad day?
→ Say Fakk!

[18]Do you ever turn off your cellphone?
→ no

[19]Where is your best/close friends at this exact moment?
→ in bed, sleeping gua

[20]What was the last thing that left you very angry?
→ ex boss

[21]Have you heard a song that reminds you of anyone today?
→ oh there are many this kinda songs in my life.

[22]Do you listen to love songs when you’re down?
→ used to now it's only salsa, n bachata.

[23]Do you say sorry first?
→ see waht happen la.

[24]Who were you with last night?
→ salsa kaki go to drink drink

[25]Do you want to tell someone how you feel?
→ sometimes

[26]Would your parents be mad if you were in a relationship?
→ no, but i no mood for relationship now

[27]If you could cuddle with anyone right now, who would you pick?
→ err...many in my list

[28]What's irritating you right now?
→ my situation now..

[29]What are you doing today?
→ meeting, teaching, dancing

[30]Are you tanned?
→ no

[31]What were you up to at 11pm last night ?
→ starbucks, sesi tani

[32]What happened at 10:00 am today?
→ dress up to leave the house

[33]How many hours did you sleep last night?
→ 3?

[34]Does anyone call you baby?
→ er..

[35]Would you get married if you could right now?
→ no, at least pun 30 la

[36]Are you in a good mood?
→ no

[37]Where did you last sleep other than your house?
→ er..dunno

[38]Who was the last person you cried in front of?
→ someone la

[39]Do you get 8 hours of sleep every day?
→ no

[40]Are you a forgiving person?
→ forgetful

[41]Do you believe what goes around
comes around?
→ yep

[42]Who was the last person you ate with?
→ in front of my student

[43]When was the last time you saw your dad?
→ few months back, miss him la

[44]Are you mad about anything?
→ my situation now

[45]Do you miss anyone?
→ dunno, my family lo

[46]Do you sing in the shower?
→ yes, sometimes dance somemore

[47]What was the last thing you did?
→ dunno

[48]Do you drink more water or juice?
→ water la.

[49]Are you the same person as you were at the beginning of 2008?
→ no

My world, My Life n My way

Just to get it off my chest once again, I am back in the valley of my life again.

Am having quite a quite a roller coaster ride this year in my life..quite an amazing experience considered have all the good, the bad n the ugly all in one year. I may seem like I ask for it as a result of AC Syndrome (Attention Craving Sydrome). But every time I fall down to this valley again I learn new things, new skills, new wisdom just to move me ahead. If today the almighty God if I may comes to me to trade this experience off? Guess I won't..

What else can there be more?

Now I just want to make it clear.
To all you backstabbers out there, just bring it! To all you bad lucks out there, just bring it!
This door is always open, just go ahead and make my day! Cos for all that you done I just don't give a damn thing about it. Afterall what else can you do? Give me a meteor shower? Guess you don't last! Cos you can't touch me!

Last but not least, To all the greatness, abundance, good luck and happiness in life you are even more than welcome to shower me with all your blessings. I pray to God, not to help me through this. Instead seek me out, give me the wisdom and strength and witness me through this matter.


After all Tony Robbins said it best, "Tough time don't last, Tough people do!"

BTW, AC Syndrome is curable.
That's blessing.. :p

Your calling...

Just to get it of the chest......

TEN THINGS ABOUT ME

1. Are you single? - Yes

2. Are you happy about that? - Enjoying is a better word

3. Are you bored? - Frustrated

4. Are you sad? - Frustrated

5. Are you a queen/king control - Sorta

6. Are you plastic? – Meat

8. Are you cool? – one kind.

9. Are you chinese? - Yes...

10.Who are you? – me.

TEN FACTS

1. Initials – BKL

2. Nicknames – DBKL

3. Birth place - Kuching.

4. Hair color – black.

5. Age - 27 .

6. Eye color - brown .

7. Birthday – 25 April (Anzac Day Having 2 countries celebrating my birthday as holiday)

8. Mood – Lost .

9. Favorite colors - Blue ; Black, White

10. Left or right handed - Lefty .

TEN THIS OR THAT?

1. Love or money ? - both .

2. Hard liquor or beer? - teh tarik!! .

3. Cats or dogs? – dog .

4. A few best friends or many regular friends? – best .

5. Television or Internet? - both .

6. Pepsi or coke? - diet coke .

7. Wild night out or romantic night? - both .

8. Money or Happiness? - both .

9. Night or day? - both

10.IM or phone? – BOTH .

TEN PREFERENCES IN A RELATIONSHIP

1. Smile or eyes – both .

2. Light or dark hair – dark .

3. hugs or kisses – both .

4. Intelligence or attraction?- intelligence & attraction

5. Hook-up or relationship - relationship .

6. Trust or love? – both

7. Long distance or close? – close .

8. Call or text? - both

9. Older or younger? – any

10.Looks or Personality – both .

Lost n Found?

Millions n Thousands of apologies for not being active in posting. As i just started working in my new company and i side track my direction a bit. And now finally realize how laid-back my blog is, *slap. Stay tuned, will post in more stuff later..

The Lion's New Crib

I think this title is responsible for me not being active blogging for the past few days over the weekend. I've been busy looking for houses/room to move in as my contract with the old owner is out. And then spend the next few days moving things and packing/unpacking. Well as a result of that I think i lost a few extra pound and get some shape on my arms ;)

After searching round n round PJ area, It finally came to my attention that there's a little house in Chow Yang SS2 having this "room to let" ad outside the fence, i call the owner up and straight away see the room. It was really a love at first sight.

Lovely little room (medium sized) super cooling and not facing main road!!! Yippee!!!
Now check my crib!

Entrance view

That's where the lion sleeps tonight~ Awhimbowep~

And this is where this blog is being posted.

Comparisons of my 2 places in PJ

Old one: @ 21/1, Seapark

Pros

• Near to a lot of nice food
• Near to bank
• Near to LRT
• Nearer to Sec 14 side can go to Digital Mall
• Rental is RM350 for a big room
• Has ceiling fan
  

Cons:

• Noisy since the house is sitting at Jalan 21/1 of Seapark one of the busiest road in Seapark connecting to the LRT and most PJ roads
• Landlord staying under the same roof, guess it's a self explainable thing
• Competing queue ups for toilet at wrong timing with house mates Argghh!!! Especially nature callS!!!
• Hot did I mention hot?!
  
• Sometime landlord check my room as if I trade fire-arms (doh!)
• What else you want?!

New place @ SS2, Chow Yang

Pros

• Quiet, Peaceful. I get birds chipping in the morning it's like having mother nature saying blessings n prayers for you. How do you like to start a day like that?
• Near to a Park, Can exercise and cut down some weight (hopefully)
• Less ppl staying only me and the other guy, he's staying in the master room so that means i get the outside toilet for my own!
• Near to all major roads! If you stay in PJ SS2 you get what I mean, near to Sunway, 1 U area, Ikea area and also not that bad going to KL also.
• Near to good food also.g
• This place is also cooling not hot.
• Rental is RM330!! RM20 cheaper!!!

Cons

• Car still have to park outside.
• No Ceiling Fan
  
• Still can't think of anything so far so good!

I still have lots of things to unpack but daddy says don't open up those book boxes first, chinese la that's why..so have to wait lo meanwhile... I really like this new place, good vibe!

Becoming Postman of God

This is truly a gift from Heaven to Pei Sun (and I'm proud to deliver it!) who is able to celebrate her son's 7th birthday followed by a movie outing in Cineleisure area.

First of all Let me introduced our Truly remarkable woman, Ms Lee Pei Sun. At her young time (well now still young la late 20's only!) she used to be a 'truly radiant bride' living almost perfect life with her husband and kid with a job and a promising future. It is only after a car accident that she involved seeding the very seed of her Spinocerebellar Ataxia disease which only outbreak after the birth of her second son, causing her body function to deteriorate as days goes by.

Now living in Beautiful Gate Foundation, PJ Center, She learned soft skills to cope up with her life and also the center help her and others like her to look for jobs/career so that they are financially self sufficient (I don't think so~!). The only reason now for Pei Sun to continue live on is her 2 kids. Despite her limited physically ability, she wants to give both her kids a complete childhood and spend as many time as possible with them. In fact due to her strong will and determination, her condition maintains its state instead of further deteriorating.

Last Friday, her eldest son is turning 7 years old. So being a friend (and our duty roster gang for Pei Sun), we bring their whole family out for a movie outing/shopping!!

We had lunch in KFC at Seapark(tho I didn't eat the chicken there :p), we celebrated his eldest son Pao Pao's birthday there. So there's where all the cake cutting and candle blowing being taken place.

The birthday boy and his mum Pei Sun

Happy Birthday to you!!

I wish my mummy can get well and dance off the wheel chair one day!

This is really a priceless picture. The Gem of the day.

After the cake cutting we proceed straight away to Cineleisure for Wall-E. Tho we missed quite a bit on the front part but Pei Sun and her kids definitely enjoyed the show as much as we do.

Posing with Sullivan n Mike!

Hey Sully! There are new monsters in town! Roar!!!

Wall-E "Aww... Isn't that a lovely family Eva?"
Eve "Hehe you sure know how to make me smile :)"

Da Lion roaming in for photo!

Queuing up to enter smalland in Ikea.

Picture of the day, taken in front of Cineleisure connecting to the Curve.

After the movie, we went to a few places, flea market, Ikea, the Curve and also Ikano power center to do some shopping.

But I'm not happy one thing is Cathay Cinema don't give discount to the disable and they have to pay full adult rate! I paid for 3 adult and 2 kids ticket, it's not about the money but really I think it's a bit unfair having disabled if they say to come all the way to pay for a full adult fare!

Pretty drenched after a whole day of event. But the fulfillment within it's cooler than just donating 1 million dollar to the center or some version like that. I'm so proud to be able to bring Pei Sun and her 2 kids to cinema with the help of my friend Josephine. This is a total breaktru for me comparing to previously bringing them to the zoo and just shopping in Ikea. Imagine carrying Pei Sun down the aisle and to put her to a seat to watch cinema and piggy-back her down to proceed to shopping! It was quite a blessing also that Pei Sun's 2 kids Pao Pao and Kang Kang are quite obedience and cooperative so the whole day journey is pretty fun and juiced!

Isn't that fun?

How can you help?

1. Donations to Beautiful Gate Foundation. Doesn't have to be just in cash form (well of cos cash would be nice as cash is king!), donations can also be of your old newspapers or any junk that you think you need to throw away, just give it to them! They'll sell these junks/recycle and take the $$ for their funding!
   
   
2. Join us in our weekly roster sending Pei Sun home to see her kids weekly. Now we need more people on this, especially during events of one of her son's birthday or outing to zoo and cinema. As this will enhance the fun and also we can spread out the jobs at least all of us are not so tired.

Special Thanks goes to: Brother Horng Han who 'assigned' this task to me, Aunty Han for providing the lunch and sending Pei Sun and Josephine for being the nanny cum photographer of the day :p.

God Bless!

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My Meatless week so far....

I must say I am proud of my progress, it's been a week now since I started my 'meatless diet'. Things are going good, simply because of this my skin complexion got better and also I lose 1kg out of this simple act!!! On top of that bad breath also gone cos my body is less acidic!

Below are some suggestion of what you can have as a substitution of 'just meaty stuff' or rather what I had over the weekend. :)

Fish porridge with lots of fish cake and fish ball in it.

Goes really well with a Hainam style Teh Tarik.

All time favourite Lui cha!!
(Jo, how come you shoot my tummy one?)

Now this one is really special, Sushi salad roll.
Consist of mangkuang, cucumber, beetroot and also rolled in seaweed, all organic.

Comes with a special sauce.

One thing also throughout my diet, I involved some organic vege in it.
Why? They are simply more nutritious! Usually we just need to pay a slightly extra more to get those extra nutrition, which I think it's all worth it. Also eating organic veg, you tend to chew more times than usual due to their texture are slightly different from other veg which is good for our facial muscles and also our teeth.

I must say I'm still not consider a vegan or anything, but this kind act brings a few benefits:

• Better Health (doh!)
  
  
• Better Emotional state at all times, less angry, less agitated (Try meatless a week and notice your temper!! Works for me!!!)
  
  
• Reduce global warming (less meat intake = less market demand = less poultry sacrifices = less land to rare these animals!!)

To meat or not to meat? The choice is yours.
Stay Peace!

My Meatless Week, Day 4,5

Proud to put it I still honor my words of meatless for the pass 2 days.
Day 4 I had my usual bananas for lunch and dinner it be koay tiau basah! Situated at TTDI behind the IBM building there's a quiet little stall. Very nice place very cosy some more got free wifi!

That's the Kueh tiaw basah! A bit like Penang style

Day 5
I had a vegetarian fried meehoon for breakfast and organic fried rice for Lunch at SS2

Breakfast

Dinner Nasi Goreng Kampung while watching Our Lee Chong Wei vs Lee Hyun-il

Can't Smile without you? You = Who?

Can't Smile without you- Barry Manilow

You know I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel sad when you're sad
I feel glad when you're glad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile without you

You came along just like a song
And brightened my day
Who would have believed that you were part of a dream
Now it all seems light years away

And now you know I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel sad when you're sad
I feel glad when you're glad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile

Now some people say happiness takes so very long to find
Well, I'm finding it hard leaving your love behind me

And you see I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel glad when you're glad
I feel sad when you're sad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile without you

Funny to find myself falling in love with this song. It's a very nice old song by Barry Manilow. I only came to know this song from Hellboy 2 (nice movie must watch!!), when Abe secretly played this song in the library but was then later discovered by Hellboy himself. And He's trying to hide the fact that he is in love with Princess Nuala (go watch the whole thing la then you know what I'm bragging about :p ). Then in the end both of them end up having that song repeated 1000 times and both of them drunk with beer. Check out the video what I am describing :)



Humans are just so funny and strange. Now I find myself in a situation consistently improving myself and looking forward to my next relationship but then again the Ironic part is I know myself well enough not to 'settle down' ie have a stable, solid relationship yet. Always have this phobia lately but again longing for a companionship. What wrong with me?

Hard to say.. hard to say.. welcome for feedback. I don't mind harsh words I can take it. :)

My Meatless Week, Day 3

Guess what I got for today again? Bananas!!!
But Why bananas? Because it's good, simple, nutritious, economical and filling! Why not?

I got this in cold storage yesterday, cost me a hefty RM6.39. But so what? 2 bananas = 1 meal and there's like 6 of them with me ie RM6.39/6= less than 1 dollar per banana? So if you wanna like have a recession proof diet I seriously think having some bananas is a part of the solution (not all :p).

See how much value for money this can be?


And this is what I have for dinner! Hotplate seafood and rice, at station kopitiam in cineleisure. Again no meat!

My Meatless Week Day 2

As a sequel of day 1, I had the leftover bananas from yesterday which is ripen better today so it's tastier.

As for dinner I had Fillet o'fish Mcvalue meal. Hey i'm not violating the rules! Still it's no poultry product ie, no chicken, beef, pork and lamb/mutton! :p

It's Fish!!!

My Meatless week

Disclaimer: First of all I define the word 'Meatless' to be no poultry product ie, no chicken, beef, pork and lamb/mutton (no!!!). I still take fish and other seafood stuff. Ok?

As a announcement made in previous post, I decided to go on meatless for at least a week and beyond if possible. Part of the reason is because of the gruesome movie Midnight Meat Train, and partly because of health (hmm.. we'll see..)

Banana for lunch! only RM1.93 Cheap and recession proof!

Tang fishball!! Near my house nothing beats the simplicity of it

Bon Apetit!

Stay tuned for further episode.